Respect ME is a growing national and international team, with locations across the UK and in South Africa. 

The team also has help from some excellent guest tutors when needed.

Manchester: Emma Owen, Adam Styles and Rachael Silvester
Cardiff: Caitlin Woodington, Warren Weber and Shunita Barry
Lincoln: Lydia Daubney
Teesside: Joe Winterschladen
Cape Town, SA: Naomi Plant

emma owen (Founder/manager)

Emma is a former member of Manchester band The Tribe and a God TV presenter. She has been delivering top class school lessons, assemblies and events for over 19 years.

Adam styles (Manchester)

Adam is a bit of a jack-of-all-trades. From taking schools lessons on value and self esteem, or throwing himself around the stage with pop-punk band Malokai, to working as a graphic designer and illustrator or even writing electronic music, Adam has done it. Now he uses his story of overcoming a history of self harm to show young people there's always hope.

Rachael Silvester (Manchester)


Lauren Jubb (Manchester)

Lauren is proud Yorkshire lass but had a difficult family upbringing and really struggled with liking herself as a teenager which lead to self harming and her feeling suicidal. Lauren's heart and passion is to help other young people know their value and worth in God and what he says about them. ‘It's so sad how few people can say they like themselves.’ THIS HAS TO CHANGE.

She moved to Manchester in 2013 to join the Message Academy to train as a youth/schools worker. It was here that she first heard of Respect Me and straight away was gripped with the importance of getting in front of as many young people as possible to empower them to Respect themselves and everyone around them.

Lauren is super excited to be a tutor with the Respect Me team in the North West.

Shunita Barry (Cardiff)

Shunita is passionate about young people knowing who they are, that they are completely valued and have incredible potential, no matter what their background or current circumstances. She has spent a year training with Message Academy in youth work and schools work and also has a background of youth work in her home city of Cardiff. Shunita is now working for Message Wales as part of the Respect ME team going into schools.

Lydia Daubney (Team Leader, Yorkshire and East Lincolnshire)

Lydia is passionate about encouraging and equipping young people to know their identity and value. A qualified teacher, she has been delivering high quality lessons in secondary school in Lincoln for the past thirteen years. Lydia loves partnering with schools to unlock potential, helping young people to develop confidence and inspire ambition. A trained dancer and choreographer, Lydia thrives on a creative approach, delivering engaging lessons that encourage young people to make positive, informed choices. 


Joe Winterschladen (Team Leader, teesside)

Joe has been passionately delivering sessions on relationships in schools in Teesside for a number of years. He has a background in musical theatre having been a student at Arts Educational in London and has also worked as a fashion model. He is a youth worker at his local church, alongside his wife Grace. They have a young boy called Jesse, who is the apple of their eye.

NAOMI PLANT (south africa)

Naomi has a range of experience in youth work, previously a youth and children's worker in the Midlands and has delivered group workshops, assemblies and lessons in schools since 2011. From working in primary and secondary schools to youth groups, Naomi is passionate about young people realising their potential. Naomi has completed a year's training in youth work with Message Academy, an internship with Message Academy and Respect ME and now delivers and manages Respect ME South Africa.

Emma, Adam, Joe, Caitlin and Naomi are fully accredited in Promoting Positive Relationships from Staffordshire University under The Esteem Network and they are continually retraining and expanding their knowledge on current issues through The Esteem Network.

Rachael and Lydia will be completing the same course in Autumn 2018.

Guest Tutors

The team can be joined by our guest tutors to add teaching from a male perspective which is especially helpful in mixed classes. 


Hailing from Portugal, Daniel moved to Manchester in September 2012. He completed The Message Trust's training year Genetik and has joined a fresh new band at the Message called BrightLine. Daniel is a beat-boxer, performing in schools around the UK and overseas.

Ben Davies

Ben Davies has completed The Message Academy and an internship with The Message creative missions department. He is an actor and has toured with a number of companies including In Yer Face. He is one half of Soulbox, one of The Message's newest schools bands, which blends soul, rap and beatbox.